I’m not going to be at Summit this year. And I have mixed feelings about that. This would have been my first in-person Summit since 2019.

I had hoped to go. In fact moreover, I had hoped to present. I even had a topic submitted on exiting the industry. As many of you know, my plans are to get into Physician’s Assistant school and change careers and become a PA. You can read about my adventures in numerous posts here. So I figured, instead of the plethora of talks on “So you’re new to being a DBA” or similar, I’d offer the opposite, how to exit the industry in a positive and productive way. But as a hedge, I made sure to buy a ticket at the early bird pricing, figuring if I was accepted to speak I could get a refund then.

Sadly, my topic wasn’t chosen. That said, if you’re interested in hearing it presented, let me know. Just give me enough time to actually finish writing the presentation.

But at least I had a ticket. I was set.

But then I started to wonder. Was it worth the time and money? I don’t make a whole lot as a ED Tech, and I’d be using vacation time, so I wouldn’t actually lose any money, but I also wouldn’t be able to pick up extra shifts. And of course I’d need flights, and a rental car (I stay with friends so lodging was covered). And I realized that the main reason I wanted to go was to see my #SQLFamily. And I’ll say, that’s not a bad reason. But it’s also not inexpensive.

I finally started to put feelers out about selling my pass, but wasn’t really pushing it. And then, Grand Jury duty happened. There’s a decent chance I could have impressed upon the judge how important it was for me to attend Summit, but I didn’t think that was really right. Though, had I been selected to speak, I think I’d have made that argument. It wasn’t clear exactly when my Grand Jury commitment would end, but it was fairly clear it would overlap with Summit, and it has. Though, in a cruel twist of fate, it appears that we will in fact finish up this week!

But enough about why I’m not there. I’m here to say, I miss you all. I miss the lack of sleep, the plethora of food, hanging out on the couch at Minionware, getting massages at the VMWare booth, catching up with friends, oh and actually learning about SQL Server and the entire Microsoft data platform.

I’ve been giving my departure from the SQL arena a lot of thought and a phrase keeps popping into my head, “the long goodbye”. For now it’s not a binary process. It’s not “one day I’m a DBA, the next a PA”. For now it’s more of a DBA by day (and sometimes nights and weekends) a student taking pre-reqs (and in fact just took notes on a prerecorded genetics lecture this morning) and an ED Tech by night and weekends (and sometimes days). But I’m drawing back. I can’t recall the last presentation I gave. I haven’t signed up for SQL Saturdays. I barely attend my own local User Group. Even my consulting hours have been cut back.

But every day I’m more and more sure I’m making the right career move. I find myself missing my IT work less and less.

I’m saying good-bye, slowly. And sometimes it’s bittersweet.

This is not my final goodbye. I don’t know if there will ever be a final goodbye to any of you. But for now, however, you all… I miss you. Enjoy Summit for me!